Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Be strong
Title: Be Strong, Be Strong, Be Strong
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Haggai 1-2, Revelation 17
Key Verse: Haggai 2:4
Depression, it is said, has become the common cold of the mind. In spite of so many blessings and so many benefits, people still struggle with depression. When we are "down" emotionally or mentally, it can even pull us down physically.
In the days of Haggai the people were discouraged. Why? Among other things, the new temple they had built was inferior to the old one. One of the common effects of depression was evident-their initiative was stifled. Depressed people often slow down, even stop altogether. Having lost their motivation, they sit. And the longer they sit, the more depressed they get.
God gave very specific instruction to His people, instruction that can help us. He said first, "Be strong." Then He said, "Be strong." After that He said, "Be strong." Mark it in Haggai 2:4. Three times God says, "Be strong." That is spiritually based emotional resolve! It's not psychological self-help talk but divine instruction. It is also something that we must determine to do, to be strong.
God instructed one other thing-"work." This was not a "don't just sit there, do something" kind of instruction. It is amazing how much healing can take place when we start being constructive again.
Don't miss the bottom line. God said, "For I am with you." His presence indeed makes all the difference.
Is something depressing you? Then decide what you can do about it! Work on it, remembering that God is with you.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Haggai 1-2, Revelation 17
Key Verse: Haggai 2:4
Depression, it is said, has become the common cold of the mind. In spite of so many blessings and so many benefits, people still struggle with depression. When we are "down" emotionally or mentally, it can even pull us down physically.
In the days of Haggai the people were discouraged. Why? Among other things, the new temple they had built was inferior to the old one. One of the common effects of depression was evident-their initiative was stifled. Depressed people often slow down, even stop altogether. Having lost their motivation, they sit. And the longer they sit, the more depressed they get.
God gave very specific instruction to His people, instruction that can help us. He said first, "Be strong." Then He said, "Be strong." After that He said, "Be strong." Mark it in Haggai 2:4. Three times God says, "Be strong." That is spiritually based emotional resolve! It's not psychological self-help talk but divine instruction. It is also something that we must determine to do, to be strong.
God instructed one other thing-"work." This was not a "don't just sit there, do something" kind of instruction. It is amazing how much healing can take place when we start being constructive again.
Don't miss the bottom line. God said, "For I am with you." His presence indeed makes all the difference.
Is something depressing you? Then decide what you can do about it! Work on it, remembering that God is with you.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Acceptable worship
Title: Acceptable Worship
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Ezekiel 5�7, Hebrews 12
Key Verses: Hebrews 12:28�29
Imagine you�ve ordered your favorite pepperoni pizza. The delivery person arrives at your house and greets you with the words, �Here�s your anchovy pizza!�
�But I didn�t order anchovy. I ordered pepperoni,� you would protest.
�Yes, but anchovy is my favorite kind,� he replies.
Would this be acceptable? Of course not. While this situation may never happen in the world of pizza, it happens too often in our church pews. We may want God to accept any and all forms of worship, expecting Him to let us approach Him as we want, but He does not. Some of our ideas about God, how we perceive Him to be, and our approaches to worship�based on our wishes, not His will�are not acceptable. Just as we would not accept any and all pizza when we ordered pepperoni, so God does not accept any and all worship. Some is acceptable and some is not.
In an �anything goes� world that has given some people the idea that anything goes in worship as well, it is important for us to understand that when it comes to worship, anything doesn�t go. Understanding what is and is not acceptable to God will bring us to a decision point. Either we seek in our worship to please Him or to please ourselves. And when it comes down to doing what we want because it is what we want, we are no longer worshiping God but serving self, satisfying self, putting what we desire above what God requires.
�God, help me know Your will in worship, that my worship will be acceptable to You.�
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Ezekiel 5�7, Hebrews 12
Key Verses: Hebrews 12:28�29
Imagine you�ve ordered your favorite pepperoni pizza. The delivery person arrives at your house and greets you with the words, �Here�s your anchovy pizza!�
�But I didn�t order anchovy. I ordered pepperoni,� you would protest.
�Yes, but anchovy is my favorite kind,� he replies.
Would this be acceptable? Of course not. While this situation may never happen in the world of pizza, it happens too often in our church pews. We may want God to accept any and all forms of worship, expecting Him to let us approach Him as we want, but He does not. Some of our ideas about God, how we perceive Him to be, and our approaches to worship�based on our wishes, not His will�are not acceptable. Just as we would not accept any and all pizza when we ordered pepperoni, so God does not accept any and all worship. Some is acceptable and some is not.
In an �anything goes� world that has given some people the idea that anything goes in worship as well, it is important for us to understand that when it comes to worship, anything doesn�t go. Understanding what is and is not acceptable to God will bring us to a decision point. Either we seek in our worship to please Him or to please ourselves. And when it comes down to doing what we want because it is what we want, we are no longer worshiping God but serving self, satisfying self, putting what we desire above what God requires.
�God, help me know Your will in worship, that my worship will be acceptable to You.�
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Stay weak
Title: Stay Weak
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Ecclesiastes 4-6, 2 Corinthians 12 Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 12:9
As usual, strength is "in." Join the fitness center, work out, eat right, take supplements, be strong. Then be self-reliant, capable, assured, accomplished, using your connections and abilities to get where you want to be. Overcome your weaknesses and conquer the world.
You hear this over and over again, don't you? What you don't hear is an encouragement to be weak. The closest thing to that is the emphasis on "servant-leadership," but notice that it is still "leadership."
What Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 12:9 is truly counter-culture: "I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me." When did you last hear someone say, "Let me tell you about my weak points"? We think they are to be hidden, put out of sight, covered up. But Paul said he would boast about them.
The difference is Christ. Paul knew, and we need to also, that Christ's power rests on us in our weaknesses, not in our strength. Where we say, "I can't," Christ says, "I can." And as long as we say, "I can," Christ says, "I can't." It is not that He can't but that we won't let Him. We are like a child, unwilling to let a parent help. It is only when the child in weakness admits he can't that the parent, in strength, can help.
It's the same for us. Stay strong and you are weak. Stay weak and by Christ you are strong.
"God, help me be weak, to put aside my arrogant self-sufficiency, drawing instead on the strength of Christ. I can't, but He can."
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Ecclesiastes 4-6, 2 Corinthians 12 Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 12:9
As usual, strength is "in." Join the fitness center, work out, eat right, take supplements, be strong. Then be self-reliant, capable, assured, accomplished, using your connections and abilities to get where you want to be. Overcome your weaknesses and conquer the world.
You hear this over and over again, don't you? What you don't hear is an encouragement to be weak. The closest thing to that is the emphasis on "servant-leadership," but notice that it is still "leadership."
What Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 12:9 is truly counter-culture: "I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me." When did you last hear someone say, "Let me tell you about my weak points"? We think they are to be hidden, put out of sight, covered up. But Paul said he would boast about them.
The difference is Christ. Paul knew, and we need to also, that Christ's power rests on us in our weaknesses, not in our strength. Where we say, "I can't," Christ says, "I can." And as long as we say, "I can," Christ says, "I can't." It is not that He can't but that we won't let Him. We are like a child, unwilling to let a parent help. It is only when the child in weakness admits he can't that the parent, in strength, can help.
It's the same for us. Stay strong and you are weak. Stay weak and by Christ you are strong.
"God, help me be weak, to put aside my arrogant self-sufficiency, drawing instead on the strength of Christ. I can't, but He can."
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Twisted and empty
Title: Twisted and Empty
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Ecclesiastes 1-3, 2 Corinthians 11:16-33Key Verse: Ecclesiastes 1:15
A bundle of studs delivered to a building site will invariably have some boards that are twisted, and no amount of nails seems to be sufficient to straighten them. Then there is the frustration of running out of nails. "How many do we have?" someone will ask. When "none" is the answer, frustration sets in.
Know the feeling? When bad things cannot be undone, and the needed supplies or other people who could be of help are unavailable, realization sets in and emotions churn. Are we having fun yet? Not now.
Solomon catches our attention with this scenario. He writes, "What is twisted cannot be straightened; what is lacking cannot be counted" (1:15). It is meaningless, he says, to try to change these facts. His intent is not to leave us in despair but to counsel us to a wise perspective. There are times that we must accept things as they are.
This is not a Christian fatalism or a Christian version of karma, but it is a biblical perspective that brings peace to the heart of the believer. We need to accept what God brings into our life, be content with our situation and learn to live for His glory with our circumstances. Some things cannot be undone. Other things will be lacking. So learn to accept those facts and get on with being the person God wants you to be.
Do you have any areas of discontent right now? Accept them and ask God to help you have contentment and fulfillment in spite of, if not because of, them.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Ecclesiastes 1-3, 2 Corinthians 11:16-33Key Verse: Ecclesiastes 1:15
A bundle of studs delivered to a building site will invariably have some boards that are twisted, and no amount of nails seems to be sufficient to straighten them. Then there is the frustration of running out of nails. "How many do we have?" someone will ask. When "none" is the answer, frustration sets in.
Know the feeling? When bad things cannot be undone, and the needed supplies or other people who could be of help are unavailable, realization sets in and emotions churn. Are we having fun yet? Not now.
Solomon catches our attention with this scenario. He writes, "What is twisted cannot be straightened; what is lacking cannot be counted" (1:15). It is meaningless, he says, to try to change these facts. His intent is not to leave us in despair but to counsel us to a wise perspective. There are times that we must accept things as they are.
This is not a Christian fatalism or a Christian version of karma, but it is a biblical perspective that brings peace to the heart of the believer. We need to accept what God brings into our life, be content with our situation and learn to live for His glory with our circumstances. Some things cannot be undone. Other things will be lacking. So learn to accept those facts and get on with being the person God wants you to be.
Do you have any areas of discontent right now? Accept them and ask God to help you have contentment and fulfillment in spite of, if not because of, them.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Verse of the day 09/17/09
Psa.128:1
Blessed is every one that feareth the Lord; that walketh in his ways.
Blessed is every one that feareth the Lord; that walketh in his ways.
Coached to the end
Title: Coached to the End
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 27-29, 2 Corinthians 10
Key Verse: Proverbs 27:6
The next time you meet a retired Major League Baseball player, ask him, "At what point in your career did you no longer have a coach?" "I always had a coach," he will answer. Even the perennial all star, certain Hall of Famer, needs a coach.
Some coaches are great motivators, encouraging with positive statements to help the athlete maximize his potential. But all coaches are critics. They have an ability to see what is wrong, point it out and correct it. The player who wants to improve his game needs a good coach and a willingness to listen. He may prefer having his ego stroked, but knows that he needs the blows the coach can dish out.
We all need coaches who will tell us what we need to hear, not just what we want to hear. We need to be coachable, people who will listen and learn from what Solomon calls the "wounds from a friend" (27:6). The words of a friend may hurt for a while, but ultimately they will help if we will listen. The person who says what we want to hear instead of what we need to hear is more like an enemy who kisses up to us.
Later in this chapter Solomon says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another" (v. 17). To sharpen involves removing some from the edge being sharpened. In a sense it, too, is a wounding, but for the good.
So which do you want ego strokes or wounds?
Has someone tried to help you but you rejected him because his words hurt? Go back to that friend and ask for his help. You can trust the wounds of a friend.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 27-29, 2 Corinthians 10
Key Verse: Proverbs 27:6
The next time you meet a retired Major League Baseball player, ask him, "At what point in your career did you no longer have a coach?" "I always had a coach," he will answer. Even the perennial all star, certain Hall of Famer, needs a coach.
Some coaches are great motivators, encouraging with positive statements to help the athlete maximize his potential. But all coaches are critics. They have an ability to see what is wrong, point it out and correct it. The player who wants to improve his game needs a good coach and a willingness to listen. He may prefer having his ego stroked, but knows that he needs the blows the coach can dish out.
We all need coaches who will tell us what we need to hear, not just what we want to hear. We need to be coachable, people who will listen and learn from what Solomon calls the "wounds from a friend" (27:6). The words of a friend may hurt for a while, but ultimately they will help if we will listen. The person who says what we want to hear instead of what we need to hear is more like an enemy who kisses up to us.
Later in this chapter Solomon says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another" (v. 17). To sharpen involves removing some from the edge being sharpened. In a sense it, too, is a wounding, but for the good.
So which do you want ego strokes or wounds?
Has someone tried to help you but you rejected him because his words hurt? Go back to that friend and ask for his help. You can trust the wounds of a friend.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Verse of the day 09/16/09
Mat.5:16
Let your light so shine before men,that they may see your good works,and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
Let your light so shine before men,that they may see your good works,and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
Stoking the fire
Title: Stoking the Fire
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 25-26, 2 Corinthians 9 Key Verses: Proverbs 26:20-21
A few years ago my wife and I decided to make the change from charcoal to liquid propane gas. We enjoy "grilling" and opted for convenience over taste. The flavor, in our humble palettes' opinion, is better with charcoal, but we do cook out much more with the gas grill. I have at times brushed the snow off the top to fire it up in the middle of the winter. A twist of the knob on the tank, one match and we are on our way.
There is a problem, though. With charcoal I could see how much was left in the bag, but with a propane tank, it is pretty much a guess. One time the meal was not completely cooked when we ran out of gas. No fuel, no fire. That's the way it is.
It is the same with arguments. If there is no fuel, there will be no fire and the argument will end. One of the things that can feed that fire is gossip, and when it dies down, the quarrel does also.
Some people are quarrelsome. They stir up things and keep them stirred up. That is why they are described as being like charcoal, or wood. They kindle strife.
With picturesque words, Solomon challenges us not to be the fuel for the fire. Neither our actions, as in gossip, nor our character, as in being contentious, should start disagreements and keep them burning.
Ask yourself before you say something about another person, "Am I saying this to stir up trouble?" Answer honestly. Better to be quiet than to stoke the furnace of disagreements.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 25-26, 2 Corinthians 9 Key Verses: Proverbs 26:20-21
A few years ago my wife and I decided to make the change from charcoal to liquid propane gas. We enjoy "grilling" and opted for convenience over taste. The flavor, in our humble palettes' opinion, is better with charcoal, but we do cook out much more with the gas grill. I have at times brushed the snow off the top to fire it up in the middle of the winter. A twist of the knob on the tank, one match and we are on our way.
There is a problem, though. With charcoal I could see how much was left in the bag, but with a propane tank, it is pretty much a guess. One time the meal was not completely cooked when we ran out of gas. No fuel, no fire. That's the way it is.
It is the same with arguments. If there is no fuel, there will be no fire and the argument will end. One of the things that can feed that fire is gossip, and when it dies down, the quarrel does also.
Some people are quarrelsome. They stir up things and keep them stirred up. That is why they are described as being like charcoal, or wood. They kindle strife.
With picturesque words, Solomon challenges us not to be the fuel for the fire. Neither our actions, as in gossip, nor our character, as in being contentious, should start disagreements and keep them burning.
Ask yourself before you say something about another person, "Am I saying this to stir up trouble?" Answer honestly. Better to be quiet than to stoke the furnace of disagreements.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Riddles
What tongue can wag and never utter a word?
The tongue of your shoe!
Whats smaller an ants mouth?
What the ants eat!
Where can everyone find money when they look for it?
The dictionary!
What is the difference between here and there?
The letter "T"!
Verse of the day 09/15/09
Psa.27:1
The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?
The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?
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Never give up!
Title: Never Give Up!
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 22-24, 2 Corinthians 8 Key Verse: Proverbs 24:10
He was a paunchy, stern looking, cigar chewing Englishman, an unlikely candidate to stand against the tyranny of Nazism. But Winston Churchill will be forever remembered for his motivational one-liner: "Never give up!"
That's good advice for the Christian. Our verse for today counsels us, "If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your strength!" Translation: never give up.
Let's face it. Anybody can have strong faith when not being tested. It's when the storms of life come, when the report from the doctor is not good, when the voice on the other end of the line bears tragic news, that we need strong faith in God. That�s not a given. In fact, it's not even likely, unless we are convinced of God's righteous character in the good times of life. It's the knowledge of who God is and how He works in our behalf that gives us strength in the day of adversity.
What has God put on your plate today? Is something too difficult to bear? Is it some unexplainable disaster? Is life getting tougher for you instead of sweeter? If so, remember the paunchy Englishman. Better still, remember the advice of King Solomon: "Don't give up when tough times come. God will help you through them. Trust Him. You'll see brighter days if you never give up."
"Lord, help me to face the increasingly difficulties of life with your grace. Help me to hang in there when others hang it up. Give me the courage to do my best and look beyond the difficulty of today to the victory of tomorrow."
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Monday, September 14, 2009
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Verse of the day 09/14/09
Luke14:11
For whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased;and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
For whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased;and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
Set apart and acceptable
Title: Set Apart and Acceptable
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 19-21, 2 Corinthians 7 Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 7:1
Imagine sitting down at the table for a meal. A place has been set for you. Imagine looking at the plate and seeing on it the remnants of previous meals eaten from that plate. You just might protest a bit, especially if you are in a restaurant and don't know whose food was left on your plate! Now imagine the waiter saying, "Is there a problem? We set this place for you. What more could you want?"
Your answer would be immediate. "I want a clean plate!"
Now imagine you are the one setting the table for a very special guest. You would not want him to ask you, "Would you please bring me a clean plate?" Instead, you would make certain that not only was a place set for the guest but that it was immaculate.
This illustrates holiness. To be holy means to be "set apart." In a sense the place at the table is set apart for you; it is holy. But more is needed for it to be acceptable. It must not only be set apart but also clean. So it is with holiness.
Paul tells us to be "perfecting holiness out of reverence for God" (7:1). Being set aside and available are only part of what makes a person holy. We must be acceptable to God which will be the result of truly being set apart!
How clean is your life before God? If you know of "dirty food" on your plate, ask God to forgive you and to help you remove it from your life.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 19-21, 2 Corinthians 7 Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 7:1
Imagine sitting down at the table for a meal. A place has been set for you. Imagine looking at the plate and seeing on it the remnants of previous meals eaten from that plate. You just might protest a bit, especially if you are in a restaurant and don't know whose food was left on your plate! Now imagine the waiter saying, "Is there a problem? We set this place for you. What more could you want?"
Your answer would be immediate. "I want a clean plate!"
Now imagine you are the one setting the table for a very special guest. You would not want him to ask you, "Would you please bring me a clean plate?" Instead, you would make certain that not only was a place set for the guest but that it was immaculate.
This illustrates holiness. To be holy means to be "set apart." In a sense the place at the table is set apart for you; it is holy. But more is needed for it to be acceptable. It must not only be set apart but also clean. So it is with holiness.
Paul tells us to be "perfecting holiness out of reverence for God" (7:1). Being set aside and available are only part of what makes a person holy. We must be acceptable to God which will be the result of truly being set apart!
How clean is your life before God? If you know of "dirty food" on your plate, ask God to forgive you and to help you remove it from your life.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Stress
Teens - Coping With Stress
What is stress??? Wikipedia defines stress as, "(roughly the opposite of relaxation) a medical term for a wide range of external stimuli, both physiological and psychological." The definition of stress itself can be stressful, but The Wholistic Stress Control Institute reveals that stress can be pleasant or unpleasant depending on your reaction.
Good Stress: when an external stimuli or a change in your regular pattern of activity makes you excited, happy, or surprised, this can be a good stressor. Another example would be when a stress motivates you to do something different or heroic, that could be a good stress. Accomplishing a task can be a pleasant stress.
Bad Stress: Unpleasant stress can occur when a change in external stimuli makes you upset, sad, angry or scared. Bad stress can cause your heart to race, and worry to be on your mind. Like good stressors, unpleasant stress can motivate you to get a task accomplished, but it can also leave you paralyzed in fear if it becomes too overwhelming.
So what can I do? An International Teens and Stress website lists some of the causes of stress and common results of stress when it gets out of hand. Here are a few ideas to reduce the effects of stress and cope with stressors when they arise:
Avoid Overscheduling - try not to pile too many commitments into your schedule (sports, homework, extra-curricular activities). It is important to be involved in some things, but do not let them become too many things.
Be Realistic - do not expect yourself to be perfect. If you find you are having trouble and are getting stressed, ask for help.
Get plenty of rest - getting enough sleep helps your body and mind function at its best.
Exercise - take a short walk, bike to the park or go outside and shoot some hoops. These activities can give your mind a break from stress and can help you to re-focus your energy.
Try relaxation - breathe deeply, close your eyes, meditate... take a warm bath, drink a cup of hot tea, or listen to quiet music. These things can help calm your mind before facing a stressful situation.
Think Optimistically - know that you are going to get through the problem. It may feel stressful for the time being, but you are going to make it.
One step at a time - when facing a stressor, tackle little goals along the way. Sometimes breaking an assignment or task into parts can help reduce the size of it and the influence it has on your emotions.
For more information on teenage stress see: "Stress" on teenshealth.com, Family Doctor.org and 36 Biblical Principles to Reducing Stress
What is stress??? Wikipedia defines stress as, "(roughly the opposite of relaxation) a medical term for a wide range of external stimuli, both physiological and psychological." The definition of stress itself can be stressful, but The Wholistic Stress Control Institute reveals that stress can be pleasant or unpleasant depending on your reaction.
Good Stress: when an external stimuli or a change in your regular pattern of activity makes you excited, happy, or surprised, this can be a good stressor. Another example would be when a stress motivates you to do something different or heroic, that could be a good stress. Accomplishing a task can be a pleasant stress.
Bad Stress: Unpleasant stress can occur when a change in external stimuli makes you upset, sad, angry or scared. Bad stress can cause your heart to race, and worry to be on your mind. Like good stressors, unpleasant stress can motivate you to get a task accomplished, but it can also leave you paralyzed in fear if it becomes too overwhelming.
So what can I do? An International Teens and Stress website lists some of the causes of stress and common results of stress when it gets out of hand. Here are a few ideas to reduce the effects of stress and cope with stressors when they arise:
Avoid Overscheduling - try not to pile too many commitments into your schedule (sports, homework, extra-curricular activities). It is important to be involved in some things, but do not let them become too many things.
Be Realistic - do not expect yourself to be perfect. If you find you are having trouble and are getting stressed, ask for help.
Get plenty of rest - getting enough sleep helps your body and mind function at its best.
Exercise - take a short walk, bike to the park or go outside and shoot some hoops. These activities can give your mind a break from stress and can help you to re-focus your energy.
Try relaxation - breathe deeply, close your eyes, meditate... take a warm bath, drink a cup of hot tea, or listen to quiet music. These things can help calm your mind before facing a stressful situation.
Think Optimistically - know that you are going to get through the problem. It may feel stressful for the time being, but you are going to make it.
One step at a time - when facing a stressor, tackle little goals along the way. Sometimes breaking an assignment or task into parts can help reduce the size of it and the influence it has on your emotions.
For more information on teenage stress see: "Stress" on teenshealth.com, Family Doctor.org and 36 Biblical Principles to Reducing Stress
Count to ten again
Title: Count to Ten, Again
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 16-18, 2 Corinthians 6 Proverbs 16:32
In our fast paced world, with lives stuck on fast forward, rage comes quicker than ever. Someone gets cut off in traffic and rage kicks in laying on the horn, screaming out the window, if not doing something even more drastic. Road rage is one example; airline rage is another. I once witnessed frustrated and fearful gate agents called for the police when a passenger at the airport, frustrated by a delay, began to yell.
"Better a patient man than a warrior, . . ."
A friend caught in one of those nightmare travel scenarios, flights delayed and canceled due to weather, described what happened when he was patient with the ticket agent. After she worked out the remainder of his trip she thanked him for his demeanor. "You made my day," she said.
". . . a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city."
The person of rage may get his way at the counter or feel better having vented his anger at other drivers. He may feel good about being a road warrior, but he is not. God's Word says that the patient person, the one who can control his temper, is better.
The impatient person may think he is in control by forcing his will on others, but he is not. He is out of control, unable to control himself. We are to be under the control of the Spirit and be people of patience.
Rage may be the rage today, but patience is honored by God forever.
Perhaps something will test your patience today. Do you think you will pass or fail? You probably already know the answer! Ask God right now to help you begin to be a patient person.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 16-18, 2 Corinthians 6 Proverbs 16:32
In our fast paced world, with lives stuck on fast forward, rage comes quicker than ever. Someone gets cut off in traffic and rage kicks in laying on the horn, screaming out the window, if not doing something even more drastic. Road rage is one example; airline rage is another. I once witnessed frustrated and fearful gate agents called for the police when a passenger at the airport, frustrated by a delay, began to yell.
"Better a patient man than a warrior, . . ."
A friend caught in one of those nightmare travel scenarios, flights delayed and canceled due to weather, described what happened when he was patient with the ticket agent. After she worked out the remainder of his trip she thanked him for his demeanor. "You made my day," she said.
". . . a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city."
The person of rage may get his way at the counter or feel better having vented his anger at other drivers. He may feel good about being a road warrior, but he is not. God's Word says that the patient person, the one who can control his temper, is better.
The impatient person may think he is in control by forcing his will on others, but he is not. He is out of control, unable to control himself. We are to be under the control of the Spirit and be people of patience.
Rage may be the rage today, but patience is honored by God forever.
Perhaps something will test your patience today. Do you think you will pass or fail? You probably already know the answer! Ask God right now to help you begin to be a patient person.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Some more corny jokes
Where do cows go on saturday night?
To the mooooooo-vies!
What has no begining,no end,and nothing in the middle?
A doughnut!
If two is a couple and three is a crowd,then what is four and five?
nine!
Where can you find an ocean with no water?
On a map!
What happens to old mufflers?
They get exhausted!
3/4ths of all accidents happen within ten miles from your house.What should you do?
Move silly!!
For some more jokes click on the link.http://www.brownielocks.com/jokes.html
A house,Not a tent
Title: A House, Not a Tent
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 13-15, 2 Corinthians 5 Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 5:1
It is not unusual to see a canopy tent set up in the cemetery near our house. These are temporary structures, providing some relief from the weather during a graveside service. Soon after the burial, the tent is removed.
I like those tents for two reasons. One is obvious they do keep the sun, snow or rain off of those gathered by the grave. The other is not so obvious, but I would point it out if I were leading the service. At the committal I would reach up and grab hold of the tent. "We don�t live in tents," I would say, "but in houses." Tents are fine for times such as that, but most people would not want to live in one. They would rather have a house. I like the tent because it was a reminder of the truth that we all will one day move out of current residences and into our permanent home in heaven.
Where we live now is one sense a tent. That is what Paul calls our body, which will one day be destroyed. Until then we look forward to the building we have that is from God, "an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands" (5:1). A tent over a grave is a vivid picture of this truth. It serves as a reminder that we will leave the earthly tent behind for the home we have in heaven.
All that is around us is temporary, even our aches and pains. Rejoice that one day you will move out of the tent and into the house, the one prepared for you by God.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Author: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 13-15, 2 Corinthians 5 Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 5:1
It is not unusual to see a canopy tent set up in the cemetery near our house. These are temporary structures, providing some relief from the weather during a graveside service. Soon after the burial, the tent is removed.
I like those tents for two reasons. One is obvious they do keep the sun, snow or rain off of those gathered by the grave. The other is not so obvious, but I would point it out if I were leading the service. At the committal I would reach up and grab hold of the tent. "We don�t live in tents," I would say, "but in houses." Tents are fine for times such as that, but most people would not want to live in one. They would rather have a house. I like the tent because it was a reminder of the truth that we all will one day move out of current residences and into our permanent home in heaven.
Where we live now is one sense a tent. That is what Paul calls our body, which will one day be destroyed. Until then we look forward to the building we have that is from God, "an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands" (5:1). A tent over a grave is a vivid picture of this truth. It serves as a reminder that we will leave the earthly tent behind for the home we have in heaven.
All that is around us is temporary, even our aches and pains. Rejoice that one day you will move out of the tent and into the house, the one prepared for you by God.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Verse of the day09/12/09
Pro.3:13
Happy is the man that findeth wisdom,and the man that getteth understanding.
Happy is the man that findeth wisdom,and the man that getteth understanding.
Really Corny Jokes
Do you know what astronauts eat?
launch meat!
launch meat!
When is a cook mean?
when he beats eggs and whips cream!
How do you stop a charging rhinoceros?
take away his credit card!
What is the best way to carve wood?
whittle by whittle!
Why are movie stars so cool?
because they have so many fans!
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Daily Bible Verse:09/11/09
John8:12
Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world:he that followeth me shall notwalk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.
Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world:he that followeth me shall notwalk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.
Dealing with death
Dealing With Death
It is only natural to experience grief when a loved one dies. The National Mental Health Association, a great resource when dealing with a loss, suggests the following ways to cope with the pain:
Seek out caring people.
Express your feelings.
Take care of your own health.
Accept that life is for the living.
Avoid major life changes.
Seek outside help when necessary.
Be patient. It can take months or even years to absorb a major loss and accept your changed life.
Be patient with yourself. You probably cannot even imagine ever being happy again. Yet people around you may be telling you to "get on with your life."
They mean well but you may not be ready for this kind of advice. Ask them to be patient with you and be patient with yourself. Tell others what you need from them at this point in time - listening, sharing memories of the person who is gone, or just being there with you and for you.
No one can predict how long the grieving process will take in any particular situation. But someday, believe it or not, you will no longer want to hold on to the pain. Gradually you will be able to accept what has happened and move beyond your sorrow.
Set little goals for yourself. Getting beyond grief takes a lot of effort. You may feel uncomfortable returning to normal activities, but getting back into a routine will help.
One of the best things you can do for yourself is to set little goals each day:
Call up a friend.
Clean out a closet.
Get tickets for an event you'll enjoy.
Start a creative project.
Read a book. Click here for good teen fiction on the subject of death
As you try to accomplish your goals, you will slowly move beyond your grief, rather than allowing it to paralyze you. Doing something helpful for someone else is another good way to begin focusing outside of yourself.
Turn to God. When someone you love dies,
it's not unusual to feel angry at God: "This isn't fair! You're supposed to be a good God. Why did you let this happen?" Or you might wonder: "Are you even there, God?"
Let God know how you hurt. It's O.K. to share your pain and grief. In fact, such thoughts and feelings are a form of prayer. Prayer is simply talking to God, saying what you really feel. You don't need holy words; just speak from your heart. God understands your pain and suffers with you. Open yourself to God's healing love.
Belief in a life after death can also be a great comfort. The thought that someday you will be reunited with the person who has died can bring you peace and acceptance.
It is only natural to experience grief when a loved one dies. The National Mental Health Association, a great resource when dealing with a loss, suggests the following ways to cope with the pain:
Seek out caring people.
Express your feelings.
Take care of your own health.
Accept that life is for the living.
Avoid major life changes.
Seek outside help when necessary.
Be patient. It can take months or even years to absorb a major loss and accept your changed life.
Be patient with yourself. You probably cannot even imagine ever being happy again. Yet people around you may be telling you to "get on with your life."
They mean well but you may not be ready for this kind of advice. Ask them to be patient with you and be patient with yourself. Tell others what you need from them at this point in time - listening, sharing memories of the person who is gone, or just being there with you and for you.
No one can predict how long the grieving process will take in any particular situation. But someday, believe it or not, you will no longer want to hold on to the pain. Gradually you will be able to accept what has happened and move beyond your sorrow.
Set little goals for yourself. Getting beyond grief takes a lot of effort. You may feel uncomfortable returning to normal activities, but getting back into a routine will help.
One of the best things you can do for yourself is to set little goals each day:
Call up a friend.
Clean out a closet.
Get tickets for an event you'll enjoy.
Start a creative project.
Read a book. Click here for good teen fiction on the subject of death
As you try to accomplish your goals, you will slowly move beyond your grief, rather than allowing it to paralyze you. Doing something helpful for someone else is another good way to begin focusing outside of yourself.
Turn to God. When someone you love dies,
it's not unusual to feel angry at God: "This isn't fair! You're supposed to be a good God. Why did you let this happen?" Or you might wonder: "Are you even there, God?"
Let God know how you hurt. It's O.K. to share your pain and grief. In fact, such thoughts and feelings are a form of prayer. Prayer is simply talking to God, saying what you really feel. You don't need holy words; just speak from your heart. God understands your pain and suffers with you. Open yourself to God's healing love.
Belief in a life after death can also be a great comfort. The thought that someday you will be reunited with the person who has died can bring you peace and acceptance.
Audit Phobia
Title: Audit PhobiaAuthor: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 10-12, 2 Corinthians 4 Proverbs 10:9
One of the least welcome return addresses on mail that comes to our homes is that of the Audit Department, Internal Revenue Service. Just reading those words makes us wince. Perhaps we dread the thought of gathering up all the needed materials to answer the questions of the person assigned to examine our tax return. Honest mistakes do happen. We can copy a figure incorrectly, miscalculate or even not understand what deductions are allowable or not allowable. Still, we would rather not make the trip, returns, receipts and documentation in hand, to see the IRS agent.
The dread of an audit is worse if we know that we cheated on our return. Now the mind turns to possible explanations for the intentional error or to wondering what the penalty might be. The stomach churns, the mind races and dread hangs heavy in the air as the appointed day to meet with the auditor approaches.
Solomon said, "The man of integrity walks securely" (10:9). This person may dread an audit but only for the inconvenience. Other than a possible error in his math or a misunderstanding in the tax laws, he approaches an audit with an inward security, at peace because he knows that he has done what is right. In contrast, "he who takes crooked paths will be found out."
Integrity is not a bother but a blessing. It enables a person to walk securely, even when that walk is into the office of an auditor. Choose the secure path.
Is there an aspect of your life you live without integrity? Change that today. Choose the secure path to walk, the one of integrity.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Proverbs 10-12, 2 Corinthians 4 Proverbs 10:9
One of the least welcome return addresses on mail that comes to our homes is that of the Audit Department, Internal Revenue Service. Just reading those words makes us wince. Perhaps we dread the thought of gathering up all the needed materials to answer the questions of the person assigned to examine our tax return. Honest mistakes do happen. We can copy a figure incorrectly, miscalculate or even not understand what deductions are allowable or not allowable. Still, we would rather not make the trip, returns, receipts and documentation in hand, to see the IRS agent.
The dread of an audit is worse if we know that we cheated on our return. Now the mind turns to possible explanations for the intentional error or to wondering what the penalty might be. The stomach churns, the mind races and dread hangs heavy in the air as the appointed day to meet with the auditor approaches.
Solomon said, "The man of integrity walks securely" (10:9). This person may dread an audit but only for the inconvenience. Other than a possible error in his math or a misunderstanding in the tax laws, he approaches an audit with an inward security, at peace because he knows that he has done what is right. In contrast, "he who takes crooked paths will be found out."
Integrity is not a bother but a blessing. It enables a person to walk securely, even when that walk is into the office of an auditor. Choose the secure path.
Is there an aspect of your life you live without integrity? Change that today. Choose the secure path to walk, the one of integrity.
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Our Competence
Title: Our CompetenceAuthor: Tony Beckett and Woodrow Kroll
Proverbs 8-9, 2 Corinthians 3 Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 3:5
Some help wanted ads sound like only Superman should apply for the job. The job description may include the required education and the amount of experience in the field, plus the abilities that are expected of the person filling the position. We may look over the ad and wonder if anyone would be up to the job.
In 2 Corinthians 2:16, Paul asks a question that is not answered until the next chapter. It is a little like an advertisement in the help wanted section. After describing believers as the "aroma of Christ" (v. 15) and how we are to the one "the smell of death; to the other, the fragrance of life," he asks, "And who is equal to such a task?" (v. 16).
We certainly aren't! It is important for us to recognize that confidence in self alone is insufficient to accomplish what God wants us to do. It is also vital that we not excuse ourselves from our God given responsibilities by highlighting our inadequacies either. At this point we need to keep reading. "Our competence," Paul writes, "comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant" (3:5-6).
We may feel like the overwhelmed candidate for an overwhelming job, but we have this assurance God can make us competent for the task. The only real question is not if He can but if we will. Will you let Him so mold and make you that He can effectively use you?
"God, help me not to be overly confident in myself but properly dependent on You. Help me see how You are molding and making me to serve as Your witness."
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
Proverbs 8-9, 2 Corinthians 3 Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 3:5
Some help wanted ads sound like only Superman should apply for the job. The job description may include the required education and the amount of experience in the field, plus the abilities that are expected of the person filling the position. We may look over the ad and wonder if anyone would be up to the job.
In 2 Corinthians 2:16, Paul asks a question that is not answered until the next chapter. It is a little like an advertisement in the help wanted section. After describing believers as the "aroma of Christ" (v. 15) and how we are to the one "the smell of death; to the other, the fragrance of life," he asks, "And who is equal to such a task?" (v. 16).
We certainly aren't! It is important for us to recognize that confidence in self alone is insufficient to accomplish what God wants us to do. It is also vital that we not excuse ourselves from our God given responsibilities by highlighting our inadequacies either. At this point we need to keep reading. "Our competence," Paul writes, "comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant" (3:5-6).
We may feel like the overwhelmed candidate for an overwhelming job, but we have this assurance God can make us competent for the task. The only real question is not if He can but if we will. Will you let Him so mold and make you that He can effectively use you?
"God, help me not to be overly confident in myself but properly dependent on You. Help me see how You are molding and making me to serve as Your witness."
Daily devotions courtesy of Devotions.org, a ministry of Back to the Bible.
When you need guidance
When you need guidance:
“The LORD says, "I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you” (Psalm 32:8). Heavenly Father,I know you are the great counselor! I am in need of guidance, for I don’t know what to do. Help me to do what You want done in this situation. Please send someone to show me the steps I need to take. I depend on You, and I thank You, Heavenly Father. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: 2 Samuel 22:9; Psalm 31:3; 25:9; 48:14; 78:24; 107:7; Proverbs 3:5; 16:3; Isaiah 30:21; 48:17; 58:11
“The LORD says, "I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you” (Psalm 32:8). Heavenly Father,I know you are the great counselor! I am in need of guidance, for I don’t know what to do. Help me to do what You want done in this situation. Please send someone to show me the steps I need to take. I depend on You, and I thank You, Heavenly Father. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: 2 Samuel 22:9; Psalm 31:3; 25:9; 48:14; 78:24; 107:7; Proverbs 3:5; 16:3; Isaiah 30:21; 48:17; 58:11
When you feel threatened
When you feel threatened:
“Think about all he endured when sinful people did such terrible things to him, so that you don't become weary and give up” (Hebrews 12:3). Heavenly Father,I don’t know who else to turn to for making the bullies stop their aggression. It seems no one can stop them. They intimidate and frighten everyone. I don’t like being afraid, and it upsets me when I see them beating on others. Help me to know when to make a stand and when to ignore the threats. Please send us someone who can get them to stop. If I cannot help them by showing them You in my life, Lord, then get them out of my way. I thank You, Heavenly Father, for protecting me and keeping me safe. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Psalm 18:3; 91:4-15; 34:4; 138:3; Isaiah 41:10; 54:17; Jeremiah 39:17; Luke 12:4-7; John 10:28; Romans 12:14-21; Colossians 3:25; Hebrews 13:6
“Think about all he endured when sinful people did such terrible things to him, so that you don't become weary and give up” (Hebrews 12:3). Heavenly Father,I don’t know who else to turn to for making the bullies stop their aggression. It seems no one can stop them. They intimidate and frighten everyone. I don’t like being afraid, and it upsets me when I see them beating on others. Help me to know when to make a stand and when to ignore the threats. Please send us someone who can get them to stop. If I cannot help them by showing them You in my life, Lord, then get them out of my way. I thank You, Heavenly Father, for protecting me and keeping me safe. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Psalm 18:3; 91:4-15; 34:4; 138:3; Isaiah 41:10; 54:17; Jeremiah 39:17; Luke 12:4-7; John 10:28; Romans 12:14-21; Colossians 3:25; Hebrews 13:6
When you need a sense of purpose
When you need a sense of purpose:
“You didn't choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name” (John 15:16. Heavenly Father,I look to You in my time of need. I don’t feel like I matter much to people in this world. My self-confidence is really low right now, and I don’t know where to turn. Do You really have a specific plan for my life? That is an awesome thought. Help me to see myself, as You see me. Teach me the things I need to learn to fulfill that purpose. I place myself into Your hands, because I trust in Your opinion of me. Thank You, Heavenly Father for believing in me. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Jeremiah 1:5; John 14:13; 16:24; Romans 8:28-29; Romans 12:4-13.
“You didn't choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name” (John 15:16. Heavenly Father,I look to You in my time of need. I don’t feel like I matter much to people in this world. My self-confidence is really low right now, and I don’t know where to turn. Do You really have a specific plan for my life? That is an awesome thought. Help me to see myself, as You see me. Teach me the things I need to learn to fulfill that purpose. I place myself into Your hands, because I trust in Your opinion of me. Thank You, Heavenly Father for believing in me. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Jeremiah 1:5; John 14:13; 16:24; Romans 8:28-29; Romans 12:4-13.
When your family needs prayer
When Your family needs prayer:
“The Lord isn't really being slow about his promise to return, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to perish, so he is giving more time for everyone to repent” (2 Peter 3:9). Heavenly Father,I know You see everything and know how each situation turns out. I will trust in You. My family needs help. Show me what I can do to make life easier for them. Help my family find Your salvation so we don’t fight like we do now. Help me to show them You in my life. I thank You, Heavenly Father for your love and concern. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Acts 11:14; 16:31.
“The Lord isn't really being slow about his promise to return, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to perish, so he is giving more time for everyone to repent” (2 Peter 3:9). Heavenly Father,I know You see everything and know how each situation turns out. I will trust in You. My family needs help. Show me what I can do to make life easier for them. Help my family find Your salvation so we don’t fight like we do now. Help me to show them You in my life. I thank You, Heavenly Father for your love and concern. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Acts 11:14; 16:31.
When you feel tempted
When you feel tempted:
“Dear brothers and sisters, whenever trouble comes your way, let it be an opportunity for joy. For when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow” (James 1:2-3). Heavenly Father, I know You are strong. I need help right now, because I am being tempted to join activities that I know are not good or appropriate for me. Give me strength to say ‘no thanks’ to this pressure. Help me to find something else to keep myself busy in place of the activities my peers want me to participate in. You are my strength in this, Lord. I thank You Heavenly Father for understanding all the temptations that face teenagers today, and what it takes to refrain from being lured in the wrong direction. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Psalm 1:1-3; 119:11; Luke 22:31-32; Ephesians 6:10-11; Hebrews 2:18; 4:15-16; James 1:12-14; 4:7; 1 Peter 1:6-7; 1 John 4:4
“Dear brothers and sisters, whenever trouble comes your way, let it be an opportunity for joy. For when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow” (James 1:2-3). Heavenly Father, I know You are strong. I need help right now, because I am being tempted to join activities that I know are not good or appropriate for me. Give me strength to say ‘no thanks’ to this pressure. Help me to find something else to keep myself busy in place of the activities my peers want me to participate in. You are my strength in this, Lord. I thank You Heavenly Father for understanding all the temptations that face teenagers today, and what it takes to refrain from being lured in the wrong direction. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Psalm 1:1-3; 119:11; Luke 22:31-32; Ephesians 6:10-11; Hebrews 2:18; 4:15-16; James 1:12-14; 4:7; 1 Peter 1:6-7; 1 John 4:4
When you need friends
When you need friends:
“There are "friends" who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24). Heavenly Father,You are a gracious and loving Lord. I don’t have any friends, and I really miss having them. Please bring some people into my life that I may share with them memorable times. Open my eyes to see the good qualities in people around me. Help me be the type of friend to others, as the type of friend I seek. I thank You, Heavenly Father. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Psalms 119:63; Proverbs 17:17;27:10-11; Ecclesiastes 4:9-10; Malachi 3:16-17; Acts 20:35; 1 Corinthians 1:9;1 John 1:3-7.
“There are "friends" who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24). Heavenly Father,You are a gracious and loving Lord. I don’t have any friends, and I really miss having them. Please bring some people into my life that I may share with them memorable times. Open my eyes to see the good qualities in people around me. Help me be the type of friend to others, as the type of friend I seek. I thank You, Heavenly Father. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Helpful Resources: Psalms 119:63; Proverbs 17:17;27:10-11; Ecclesiastes 4:9-10; Malachi 3:16-17; Acts 20:35; 1 Corinthians 1:9;1 John 1:3-7.
Serentiy Prayer
The Serenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
relationships
Friendships
Friendships are tricky, wonderful, complicated and beautiful all at the same time. The reason for this is because relationships involve more than one person and the ideas, beliefs or values that each different person brings with them into communion with others. There is no one person, no matter who they are, that you agree with about everything. Similarly, there is no one person that you completely disagree with about everything. Because friendships involve two or more imperfect beings, they can be complex and multifaceted.
Everyone needs friends. Even Jesus, the Son of God and the most perfect man to walk the Earth, needed friends. He enlisted the help and services of his 12 Disciples to follow and go with him during his ministry. If the Savior of the world needs friends, certainly we do too! Check out this article about the importance of friendships at Family Works.
Friendships need time and commitment. "Instant friendships" just don't happen. Think of a friendship as a seed in a garden. First, you must go out and find a seed to plant. Second, the seed must be put into good soil and then watered and cared for lovingly. Even after the seed develops into a flowering plant and appears healthy, it needs continued water, sunlight and the care of a watchful eye.
Friendships are like that. First, you must find other people with similar interests, values and goals, good seeds. Second, you need to plant those friendships in rich soil, the soil of honesty, trust, dependability and care. As the friendship grows and develops these things must continue to keep the relationship healthy. Even after many years, things such as time and commitment remain important to friendships
Friendships are tricky, wonderful, complicated and beautiful all at the same time. The reason for this is because relationships involve more than one person and the ideas, beliefs or values that each different person brings with them into communion with others. There is no one person, no matter who they are, that you agree with about everything. Similarly, there is no one person that you completely disagree with about everything. Because friendships involve two or more imperfect beings, they can be complex and multifaceted.
Everyone needs friends. Even Jesus, the Son of God and the most perfect man to walk the Earth, needed friends. He enlisted the help and services of his 12 Disciples to follow and go with him during his ministry. If the Savior of the world needs friends, certainly we do too! Check out this article about the importance of friendships at Family Works.
Friendships need time and commitment. "Instant friendships" just don't happen. Think of a friendship as a seed in a garden. First, you must go out and find a seed to plant. Second, the seed must be put into good soil and then watered and cared for lovingly. Even after the seed develops into a flowering plant and appears healthy, it needs continued water, sunlight and the care of a watchful eye.
Friendships are like that. First, you must find other people with similar interests, values and goals, good seeds. Second, you need to plant those friendships in rich soil, the soil of honesty, trust, dependability and care. As the friendship grows and develops these things must continue to keep the relationship healthy. Even after many years, things such as time and commitment remain important to friendships
Self Control
"Self Control"
Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8, NIV).
Indicate which of the following statements you think are true or false: 1. Drinking water can kill you. 2. A major cause of death is taking a shower.3. Bees are nice creatures who make sweet honey and can only hurt a little.4. Flying in an airplane is the safest way to travel.5. Playing with guns is dangerous and smoking causes lung cancer.6. Sunshine is dangerous.7. A ham sandwich can kill you.8. Stores aren't allowed to sell anything that's really harmful.9. Spending too much time on the internet or playing video games can hurt you.10. Dishrags have more germs than anyplace else in the house.
How do you think you did?Of course, there's nothing wrong with a ham sandwich or a little sunshine. You need to eat, right? And a day without sunshine can be depressing. But it is possible to have too much of a good thing. Some of the things in the list above are good things, but they can still be harmful to you if you're not careful and self-controlled. That's why self-control can be so good for you, because it can protect you from excesses and extremes. A little self-control at the computer can prevent injury to your wrists and hands. A little self-control at the beach can prevent sunburn, even skin cancer. A little self-control with the volume on your boom box or CD player can prevent you from blowin' your ear drums out!This is starting to sound like your parents, isn't it? Okay, okay. Just remember this: the devil wants to eat you up. He wants to chew you up and spit you out. And he'll use anything--even good things if he can take them to extremes--to hurt you. So be alert. Be self-controlled. Don't be devoured.
Review: Staying away from things that are obviously bad isn't too hard; it's harder to recognize otherwise good things that could still hurt us. Can you think of any examples of otherwise good or harmless things that, if taken to extreme, can hurt you?
Reflect: Have you allowed any "good things" or "harmless things" to enter your life that would be dangerous if you're not careful? Do you need to use some self-control in any of those areas? Should you ask your parents, friends, or pastor to help you learn to control any of those areas?
Reinforce: Keep a bottle of sun-tan lotion (or a ham sandwich!) on your desk or dresser to remind you of the need for self control, even over seemingly harmless habits.
Remember: "Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour" (1 Peter 5:8, NIV).
Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8, NIV).
Indicate which of the following statements you think are true or false: 1. Drinking water can kill you. 2. A major cause of death is taking a shower.3. Bees are nice creatures who make sweet honey and can only hurt a little.4. Flying in an airplane is the safest way to travel.5. Playing with guns is dangerous and smoking causes lung cancer.6. Sunshine is dangerous.7. A ham sandwich can kill you.8. Stores aren't allowed to sell anything that's really harmful.9. Spending too much time on the internet or playing video games can hurt you.10. Dishrags have more germs than anyplace else in the house.
How do you think you did?Of course, there's nothing wrong with a ham sandwich or a little sunshine. You need to eat, right? And a day without sunshine can be depressing. But it is possible to have too much of a good thing. Some of the things in the list above are good things, but they can still be harmful to you if you're not careful and self-controlled. That's why self-control can be so good for you, because it can protect you from excesses and extremes. A little self-control at the computer can prevent injury to your wrists and hands. A little self-control at the beach can prevent sunburn, even skin cancer. A little self-control with the volume on your boom box or CD player can prevent you from blowin' your ear drums out!This is starting to sound like your parents, isn't it? Okay, okay. Just remember this: the devil wants to eat you up. He wants to chew you up and spit you out. And he'll use anything--even good things if he can take them to extremes--to hurt you. So be alert. Be self-controlled. Don't be devoured.
Review: Staying away from things that are obviously bad isn't too hard; it's harder to recognize otherwise good things that could still hurt us. Can you think of any examples of otherwise good or harmless things that, if taken to extreme, can hurt you?
Reflect: Have you allowed any "good things" or "harmless things" to enter your life that would be dangerous if you're not careful? Do you need to use some self-control in any of those areas? Should you ask your parents, friends, or pastor to help you learn to control any of those areas?
Reinforce: Keep a bottle of sun-tan lotion (or a ham sandwich!) on your desk or dresser to remind you of the need for self control, even over seemingly harmless habits.
Remember: "Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour" (1 Peter 5:8, NIV).
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Hi,I created this blog so I could find other P.k's like me.We have to deal with issues other kids might not understand ,It's hard to make friends when you are a P.k because most of us move from place to place.Most of my friends think that just because i'm a christian i dont have the same problems they do...but believe me that is so not true!
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